Yupp, I guess this is your wish for her.

So sorry I haven't been understanding enough to hear you out today and even threw a tantrum. But at that point in time, your words were super hurtful and I couldn't just sit there and cry. Then when I thought it through, I felt since you were having a really rough time I really should have been more thoughtful to be there to hear you out. Hope you'll feel better in time. Meet up soon, even though I left the band :) And no band meetings please, too overwhelming for me to handle. If there's anything, I'm always contactable :) Even though we aren't exactly very close, Crackhead loves you! Cheerup k :)